Sibling pact
A shared agreement in which the siblings set the rules themselves for how they treat each other. You turn rivalry for attention into a sense of being a team.
It's an A4 agreement written by the siblings: how we speak to each other, how we share things, what we do when we argue. The children sign it together, so the rules are their own, not imposed by a parent.
For families where siblings compete, fight for attention or can't resolve disputes without an adult. This template needs a conversation between the children — that's where their buy-in to the rules is born.
Fields for shared rules, a way to resolve conflicts (e.g. "first I say how I feel"), and space for the names and signatures of both (or more) children. The assistant matches the rules to the age gap between siblings.
The assistant accounts for the age gap and proposes rules a younger child can understand and an older child finds fair.
It won't eliminate conflict — that's a natural part of growing up. What it gives the children is a shared language and a procedure so fights end faster and without your intervention.
It's best if they feel it's their agreement, not yours. The assistant will suggest how to lead the conversation so the children propose the rules themselves.
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